I fucked my husband on our first date because I wanted to see if he was any good. I also suffer from depression and anxiety, I'm on the autism spectrum, and I've experienced sexual trauma.I addressed my problems through counseling, medication, physical therapy, and even surgery.It sounds cheesy, but marriage counseling really helped.It helped my husband understand himself and his reactions better, and it helped cement the idea of "ours" instead of "yours" as it related to the problems I was dealing with at the time.I won't say it's been fairy-tale perfect—the kind of perfect that makes you barf and roll your eyes—but it's been pretty damn close.My wife has been incredibly GGG, and I hope I have been, too. Now you know there's at least one couple out there whose sex life has only gotten better over the years.Better Erotic Ties Totally Enhanced Relationship Last week, I responded to IMDONE, a woman who married a man despite the sex being "infrequent and impersonal" during their courtship.To the surprise of no one who has ever given sex advice for a living, the sex didn't get better after IMDONE and her boyfriend got married.
For me, being comfortable with my husband and secure in the relationship made it so much easier to communicate and work on fixing the problems together.
Practice, Practice, Practice My sex life improved after marriage.
I am a straight male with a highly stigmatized kink.
I struggled with erectile dysfunction during my courtship with my wife.
It didn't really settle down until we'd been married for a while.