From the wise words of Eckhart Tolle, “You will never find salvation in a relationship.” Stop looking for happiness in your partner. Which leads us to the next point…One of the most important factors in the health of any relationship is how you handle your emotions.
In fact, the rare high-quality man has total control over his emotions.
We have a society where everyone is trying to be someone that they’re not. Most people focus on a future self instead of who they are right now in the present moment. This is the struggle of not only Borderlines, but almost all men and women. However, this new study proves that meditation doesn’t make people happier.
Cases of BPD are at an all-time high because most people have no drive, they’re lost, no ambition, addicted to social media and physical appearance, etc. Most people are never satisfied with themselves in the present. As I’ve been saying for , the only thing that makes people happy and stress-free is an independent mindset, one that puts yourself first. No amount of love or intimacy will change your level of happiness.
It’s impossible to be strong and centered when your mind isn’t focused on the present.
This makes dating someone with BPD an impossible task.
You can’t be a hero in the present, and this frustrates you. You’re seeking an end-result that exists in your imaginary future.First of all, I understand that BPD is a cluster B disorder. Hence, arming yourself with the best mindsets will give you control over your mind.Furthermore, I am aware that Bipolar is a serious issue. But, what I will say, is that attaining complete control over your mental and emotional state gives you the best shot at a better relationship. So, let’s focus on achieving imperfection that satisfies you and your partner. You will lower your stress levels, you will feel happier and you’ll have more confidence.It’s a complete waste of time and all you’re doing is turning her more and more off.She subconsciously argues with you because she wants to test if you’re a man. Beta males will also try to not argue, but will do it from a state of weakness.And, you’ll never find a true alpha male falling into an argument with his girl.He’ll just throw her purse out the door and tell her to go home and cool off (that’s what I do and it works extremely well).Nearly everybody these days is on the BPD spectrum.3) Learning what NOT to do is just as important as learning “tips” and “techniques.” 4) Drop the “Savior Mentality.” You’re not the Hero. 5) Strong emotional control is key to these relationships. You You can’t experience loving, fulfilling BPD/Bipolar relationships without a healthy state of mind.This is a key difference and it’s why you must be of the alpha type to have any sort of success in BPD relationships.In fact, I know plenty of BPD women who treat their boyfriends like kings because of this truth.However, better mindsets lead you to better relationships. Am I saying that your BPD relationship will pull a 180 and be healthy forever? You’ll develop a better sense of power and direction. And, if you happen to have BPD yourself, you can make great strides in your own life by following my advice. The world today is much different than it was 10 years ago or so.If you attained all these things, do you think your relationships would improve? Your environment and life experiences determine your mental and emotional state.They come and go as they please, and there’s nothing you can do about it.