Kids: Someone who is divorced (depending on his age) most likely has kids, which means he will feel a little bit more comfortable with your kids. Nakedness in broad daylight, those annoying habits, likes clothes all over the floor, the burping and farting you never experience when you’re dating, and really the way the person lives. He’s not bashing his ex every three days, he’s not saying good-bye to his kids and then having that sad look on his face, and he doesn’t have that wounded look that says, “My wife ruined my life.” The never been married guy is fresh, untainted. Commitment: There’s commitment and then there’s commitment. He stood in front of God or a judge and a crowd of people and agreed to commit in writing. Both divorced guys and guys who have never been married can be amazing guys. In other words, I’m not saying one is better than the other.Remember, there are some guys who have never been married who have kids, and there are some guys who have never been married but have dated a lot of women with kids, so they might be used to being around kids. The ability to be domestic, in other words, can he play house? Although, how do I know he wasn’t madly in love and then dumped? A guy who has never done that could have a commitment issue. There are advantages and disadvantages to both guys.Just had to vent its bothering me and I would love some advice on how to deal with the situation and my emotions.If he is senior to you, and specially with huge age gaps, he would have certain habits , experiences which are irreversible.. I am sorry he is not the best fit for you, i don't mind age gaps. He is very smothering sometimes - as in, never wants me to be apart from him ie: I want to go to dinner with friends, get away for the weekend by myself, etc.His ex cheated on him and is supposably hated by the whole family, but it hurt to still see that picture hanging there.Again, I love him very much, but most arguments are centered around these situations I have explained.I just wish we had that life of marriage and children and it bothers me.