This should including purchasing and learning to use accessories.
Whips, especially, need a good amount of practice to use safely while still causing enough pain.
I have a graduate degree in engineering, a good job in a technical field, am physically active, a snappy dresser, and I'm a bit of a man-slut. It's the demographic I fall into and the general format for the type of guy that I have a good chance of representing: a young, sexually liberated, post-college professional.
The further removed your guy is from that pattern the less likely my post has any relevance to your particular situation.
These roles may or may not represent us in the rest of our lives, but while we're fucking they're simultaneously comfortable and exciting. Your mouths start moving and your brains stop thinking and the whole thing descends into a lust-fueled fluid-soaked pleasure-fest.
One last important thing: When you talk dirty and push the limits of what you feel comfortable doing there are going to be some inevitable moments that feel really awkward or uncomfortable.
We're the dom, the sub, the good girl, the bad boy, the dirty girl...
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